Self Help

Sometimes a piece of our mind rebels against a task. It makes life miserable. Instead of reading the research article you are supposed to, you find yourself distracted by all the wonders of the internet or by all the things you have to do or even by how nice it would be if you mopped the floor right now. The article either does not get read or you “read” it, looking at words, but not really comprehending it.

When people plan a wedding, often they focus on the big day itself without thinking as much as they should about the many years beyond the wedding day. But even as you are contacting caterers and trying to decide which music you will have, before you get married is a good time to take in one great reality about marriage: it’s not 50/50. It’s 100/100.